I’ve been given an ultimatum and I’m not sure if it’s a battle worth picking.
My mom is very against “first look” photos and a month ago there was no reasoning with her. But when we booked our reception hall we have 45 minutes between the end of the ceremony and start of dinner. Not much time at all especially when she adamantly wants the receiving line as the guests leave the chapel and head to the reception hall for cocktails. (Both locations are on the same property). My mom has many requests and although I know she only wants the best for me and is financially supporting 90% of the event I can’t help but feel like my hands are tied. Most of her wishes I’m going with the flow but pictures are really important to me. I would really like to have the bridal party, immediate family, and first look photos completed before the ceremony so they are not rushed leaving time for extended family. When I expressed my concern regarding time I was given an absolute no and then a choice. If I want first look photos – her and my dad get front row seats while my FI and I are taking photos. I’m not a very affectionate person in public and with my parents eyes on me I’m afraid I’ll be reserved and miss one of those ‘magic moment’ pictures. So.. do I stand my ground and hope for the best – or does anyone have suggestions to help accommodate the both of us.