So I asked my friend if she would be one of my brides maids when we picked our date (last year) and she said yes. Great, however now with the wedding still being a year away (but we are still friends and still close) she is saying she doesnt know if she wants to because she doesnt know where she will be financially, I am letting my girls pick their dresses I just have to approve so it is within their price point. OH!! and she is also throwing out there " I'm to fat to be in your wedding anyway" and " If i dont unfat then I deffinatly wont do it."
What do I do here becuase I dont have anyone to replace her with... Should we just cut it down to accomidate our lack of her? HELLP