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when to send save-the-dates

sara_beth21sara_beth21 member
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Hi everyone! Our date is 5-31-14....when should we send save-the-dates?
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    ArtTeacher23ArtTeacher23 member
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    If you have a lot of out of town guests or are planning a destination wedding, send them out ASAP so that your guests have the time to make travel plans and such.
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    bellaluna290bellaluna290 member
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    Since you're getting married on a holiday weekend, I would send them out ASAP.
    We are getting marred 5/17, so we aren't sending ours until around October.
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    Anastasia517Anastasia517 member
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    Save the Dates go out 6-9 months before the wedding, so August 31-November 30 of this year.  Invitations go out 6-8 weeks before the wedding.
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    FutureMrsN3312FutureMrsN3312 member
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    My wedding is 5/17 also.  I just ordered my STDs on Monday.  I should have them by the end of next week.  As soon as I get them together I'll be sending them out.  FI is from NY and has family in FL as well.  They act like coming to NJ is a huge ordeal.  (from where most of them live its a 40min drive)  So the more notice I give them the better.  I'm also including the information for the hotel blocks so they can plan accordingly. 
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    msuprincess04msuprincess04 member
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    We are having a destination wedding. Our STDs will go our sometime in late July, about 10 months before the wedding date.
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    Valeriecruz82Valeriecruz82 member
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    I'm getting married in Vegas. I just sent mines last week. I guess I'm a little excited lol :)
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    LAM524LAM524 member
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    Oh boy!!! I was thinking Id send ours out in July/August but after reading your posts, Im thinking I should send ASAP!! Our wedding is Memorial day weekend!

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    Anastasia517Anastasia517 member
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    LAM, if my FI & I send ours out we won't until August or September!  I've always read you're supposed to send them out 6-9 months in advance, so that means August - November!!
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    FutureMrsN3312FutureMrsN3312 member
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    6-9 months seems to be the norm.  If I wasn't getting complaints about the distance (and that its prom/communion season) I would wait to send them out.
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    minsu5minsu5 member
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    In Maryland, if you're getting married towards Preakness, it's also to send out STDs early. Most hotels tend to book up early on that weekend and around Memorial Day weekend (esp. if you're having a wedding in the DC metro area).

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    Marho1984Marho1984 member
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    it's the weekend after memorial day!
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    Marho1984Marho1984 member
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    I'm also getting married on May 31, 2014 !!! : )
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