Hello!
So the issue came about when we wanted to involve my step dad in the wedding and didn't really know how (won't be walking me down the aisle or have the father daughter dance). He comes from a religous background (which is important to fiance but not me), but is now just a very spiritual soul in many different ways. We are very confident in his ability to officiate our wedding, but the problem comes in where he is not judge, minister, or a resident of Florida and there is no way for him to legally marry us.
I've heard we can just get legally married at the courthouse with the signed certificate, wtinesses, etc. and go on with the ceremony like we normally would. It would just mean that we wouldn't sign the marraige certificate at the end of the ceremony?
Thoughts? Advice? Is it realistic we can have him as the officiant? Are there things he can't say like, I now pronounce you man and wife?
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