I'm getting married in July. I've been planning the wedding for about 2 years already. I have this friend who found out that is pregnant back in January. She states that "her mother and mother-in-law" have planned her baby shower on my wedding day. Her husband is part of our wedding party. I'm upset about this because she had known about the wedding for months. I don't believe for one second that her "mother and mother-in-law" put her baby shower on my wedding day when she is a grown adult. She could have said something to the lines of, "I'm busy that day" or "My friend is getting married on that day". Do I have the right to be upset about this. She isn't even due until October!!! She also has the guts to ask if she can come late to the reception after her baby shower. I don't even want to be around her. Do I have a right to be angry about this? How in the world do I answer her question without sounding like a bridezilla? I know that we aren't the best of friends but really? What do I tell her? FYI- my sister ran into her at the store the other day and my friend stated that she was sorry her baby shower was on my wedding day but "I' don't really see the big deal here because my husband will still be allowed to go". How do I go about fixing this without being snarky?