So I m getting married next october and one of the ways that we thought we could save money is to have a family style dinner. I hate buffets. I think they are kind of tacky and the food can go cold or get soggy. I just wanted an opinion on either doing the food myself (I'm a professional cook and I know how to multi task) or to hire a caterer to do it for me. I just have this fear of the food being bland and typical wedding food.