My regular lawyer recommended me to a matrimonial lawyer a couple weeks ago, and my appointment with her was today. She seems really good, and I love the fact that she talks to me like a regular person in jargon that I understand, rather than legalese! But wow, I didn't realize that things like this were so convoluted, not to mention expensive. I walked in thinking around the $500 mark. Yeah, times that by 3 in terms of prenup agreement cost. It was a costly day for this kid today! But, the ball is rolling on it.
Question though: FH was planning on moving in with me this weekend. Should this still happen, or would you guys recommend holding this off until the process is done and all documents are signed? The lawyer recommended the latter, saying that if he moves in then refuses to sign the prenup, I either am forced to concede and not have a prenup, or I would have to end things.