My fiance and I have friends and family from coast to coast (most of which can't afford to travel for our wedding). We have come up with the idea of doing like a "known" elopement or "private" destination wedding in Wyoming where my Grandparents own a lodge we would stay at. My question is, how would I even explain that to people in announcements or whatever? We do however want to make a road trip from Salt Lake City, Utah (where my family lives) back to South Georgia (where we live and where my fiance's family lives) and have little receptions with my family in SLC, our friends and family in Dallas, Tx and back home in South Georgia. It seems like so much, but there are over 200 people who we all cherish and wish to spend this moment with. I'm new to the whole planning thing as we just got engaged this week but being the perfectionist that I am, I'd like to get the ball on the road and be prepared! Any ideas or suggestions would be MUCH appreciated.