I just talked to the person that Fi and I want to officiate our wedding. I told my mother about it to help her feel included (she acts like she doesn't care, but if I don't tell her, she acts all hurt) and she said that we should've waited until two weeks in advance. I don't think that's right. For one thing, he will need to plan for it. Two, I don't want to run around looking for an officiant that close to the wedding. Three, he does want to meet with Fi and I once before the wedding.
So when should you look for an officiant?