Here is a post from ML:
I have body issues, hell, most of us do. I've been the brunt of many jokes all of my life about my weight, and its always been a sore spot. H knows that I have low self esteem, which is why I'm having a hard time laughing it off. Tonight, we were getting ready to watch a movie, and he was pinching my side. I laughed and asked him to stop pinching my fat. He says, "If I wanted to squeeze fat, I'd squeeze your belly."
I think it was a case of not thinking before he spoke, and I know he feels bad, but man..that's a serious blow to the self esteem. He's asleep, and I'm sitting here feeling gross. I hate that I don't have enough confidence to not give a shit.
Read more:
http://pandce.proboards.com/thread/194727/put-foot-mouth-tonight#ixzz2XWNqKMqMNow, I don't think this is a case of just speaking without thinking. So say we all, or... not?