Okay...so I actually was thinking about doing this. Then saw many posts on this site regarding an honorary bridesmaid, and thought that this might really work for me. I haven't found any post where the bride is in a similar situation to me, so here's my idea.
My matron of honor recently "defriended" me, and said that she not only can't be in my wedding, but that we can't be friends anymore. This left me to choose my brother as my man of honor. I wasn't having any bridesmaids at all, and still don't want any bridesmaids. My fiance and I are having one person stand for each of us. Now as I am getting closer to my wedding day, I am beginning to feel that I want some girls to be there for me, both emotionally and physically. So my idea is to ask a few of my closest friends to be honorary bridesmaids where they will simply come early to the wedding to get ready with me and be behind the scenes. They will not wear special outfits, walk down the aisle, or stand at the front with me. I will, however, treat them out to lunch the day after the wedding to thank them for their friendships and time.
What do you think?