So, I am not sure if I am alone on this, but I just wanted some advice. When I was ready to ask my really close friends to be apart of my big day, I did not really do it in a way like some do. By that, I mean I didn't give gifts that asked them to be in my bridal party. I pulled them each aside, or while I was hanging out with them and just expressed how much it would mean to me if they were standing up there with me when I said my vows. Looking back on it- I feel bad for not making it all personalized and cutesy. Am I the only one dealing with this? I wasn't sure if it was a must-do, or should-do. I was also really strapped for cash at the time, but am really wanting to get them something nice as a wedding present for them. Any thoughts or suggestions?