so he won't be able to make it to the wedding. They have another guy who can do it who's been with the band for 15 years, so it's totally fine. i just feel more and more ironic about it that I refer to our wedding as the "lucky thirteen wedding." My wedding is haunted! It's so WEIRD!
For those who haven't heard or who can't remember the entire saga because you're all also brides with lives of your own, my hair stylist died, and then my cake baker broke her wrist. Everything is turning out fine. It's just so... creepy!