Ok, please don't call me selfish or tacky but I need some ideas on how to deal with this situation. My aunts have decided to throw me a shower & while I know they are on an extremely tight budget & the invites are very simple. They include hardly any information! They include when , where(at the church, not at someone's home), and for who. But they don't include a return address or who the party is hosted by & they don't include any registry info. There is a rocky past with me & the aunts but we are on the mend, I just feel if I try to correct this they may get mad. So should I just let it go & what happens, happens? I just feel like my guests have no idea what is going on & I know it would be tacky of me to call them up & tell them who is hosting and where I'm registered.