Hi, I need some input...My husband's friend just recently got married-it was a second marriage for both so it was small and they only had their family attend(only 15 people total at the wedding). No friends were invited and they never really talked much about their wedding because it was a small affair. My husband and his friends took the groom out for dinner/drinks to celebrate before the wedding. We just found out friends in our mutal circle all gave them a gifts for their wedding-big gifts too like a night at a B&B and a wine tour. Our cash flow is tight right now and I know our friends would never expect a gift but should we send a gift-we are starting to feel bad we didn't give them anything. We don't want to look cheap-we did get them gift for their other life milestones-a house warming gift, they had a baby last year, and we just came back from their daughters first birthday-is a wedding gift necessary?