Probably a weird question, but FI has a really good relationship with the woman who cuts his hair (They've known each other for 15 years), and we were going to invite her and her husband to our DW anyway. I was thinking of asking her to do my hair and makeup if she ends up deciding to make the trip, and maybe we could cover their hotel for the week. If we did that, it would be around $1000, so would it be appropriate to ask for her to do my bridesmaids hair and makeup as well?
Or would it be better to say we'd love for you to be there, and if you are willing, we will pay you to do beauty services, but then not pick up the costs.
Basically, I don't want her to feel like any less of a guest, but I know it would mean a lot to FI if I asked her to do my hair. And it would be really nice to do a trial session with the person who will actually be doing my hair on the day of.