How should I approach excluding one friend from my bridal party?
I have a group of 3 girlfriends from grad school, but only want to include 2 of them as bridesmaids. The third is a great girl and I value her friendship, but I don't feel as close to her as I do the other two. I'm looking at a total of 6 bridesmaids, which is already 1 more than the groomsmen. I really don't want to have more than 6 (and even if I had 1 more...another friend from high school would be my next choice).
The problem is, the girl that I am debating excluding has a strong "not being included" complex. She makes comments when she's not invited somewhere, and gets offended when she's not equally included. I'm struggling because I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I don't feel I should have to include her just for the sake of those feelings.
Has anyone dealt with something like this? Would it be appropriate to have her have some other role in the wedding, such as programs, greeting, escorting, etc? Any advice is appreciated! Thanks.