We are getting married on may 10th which I would be my dads birthday. He passed away when I was 13 and I'm 37 now. My mom is walking me down the aisle but I would like to have a boutainnere made for him to carry down the aisle and place in the empty chair by my mom and walk the rest of the way to the alter (only a few more steps) by myself. We are having a small wedding 50 people max close family and friends only. My mom thinks its a thoughtful idea and fiancé said as long as it makes me happy he doesn't mind. I don't want to make it a sad occasion for others but even though he's been gone for years it doesn't feel right for my dad not to have a place at my wedding. What are your thoughts suggestions