our wedding is exactly 2 months away! yay! so excited! All the planning is going well (good thing, I want to be finished before school starts back up again!). But we are running into an issue with the garter toss tradition. Every wedding in both of our families has had one, neither of our families are particularly religious, and neither of us are shy by any means... but I am rather uncomfortable with my FI putting his hand up my dress in front of all our family and friends. He thinks that this tradition is hilarious and is insistent that we do it. I should probably add that he has had very very little requests for the wedding.
Does anyone have any ideas for alternatives or maybe some kind of compromise? Please help!