I'm typing this on my phone so hopefully it makes sense. I have 4 bridesmaids and my FI wants equal sides. I've told him unequal is fine and completely cool with me. He really wants equal sides but with 3 months until the wedding....he won't pick groomsman. He says they don't need to know his early and don't until closer to the wedding. Am I going crazy wanting him to pick them out if he wants them so badly or should I let it go? I've asked him a couple times when he'd. Ask them and he gives me a timeline but doesn't pick them when that timeline is over. I think I'm just odd....buy I want to know so I can make decisions based on this.