Last month out of the blue my BF text me saying "we should get married in 2016" i asked him why 2016, he responded "thats just the year i picked".
After that text i didnt know what to do with myself. I started looking at dress, venues, decorations, cakes, writing down a guest list. Everything you can think of i was def surfing the net for it. Then we sat down and talked about where we wanted to have the ceremony/recepetion at, the date, everything. I was just all into the mix.
The i joined theknot.....
A few post later i realized i was WAY over my head. I think having a guest list is about as far as i want to take this 2016 pre planning wedding thing. Responses from some of the other ladies telling me not to rush,and enjoy my relationship now, I am truely grateful for those few. I do want to enjoy my relationship. I dont want to be expecting a proposal the next holiday, valentines day, anniversay, or my birthday.. because i know i won't be excited. Even though "2016" is still in the back of my mind, and i really really want to go look at venues, and other fun stuff. I will only take it day by day. I promised myself to not open my 'Wedding Planner" book and not to look at at anymore venues or dresses. The only thing we will continue to do is save $$$. So, thank you to the ladies who were kind, and honest to me about pre planning, I greatly appreciate it.