So, I'm getting married on Jan 18, I'm having 5 bridesmaids, 2 sisters, and 3 friends. One is my best friend since first grade, the other i know her since third grade but become friends in high school and another girl who is a good friend and i love her, she helped me through a lot of stuff, where going to call her Gina. The thing is that we got engaged on Jan 1 2013, and Gina has only been there as a bridesmaid once, the first time I tried a wedding dress. Now she's gone! I mean I still see here online on facebook, but we don't talk at all! and every time we talked is me saying like "hey i miss you, we should come together one of these days" and she is like yesss im the worst! im sorry i love you" We have made some BM reunions, we talk a lot in messages, facebook, whatsapp, they are all pending of everything thats going on, except for Gina, she hasn't attended to the 2 meetings we have made. she doesn't even answers the group messages. And its not like I'm bridezilla i mean we talk about the wedding like once a week or less. Today i wrote to gina and this happened:
me: lets be friends pleaase!
gina: haha i know im a sucky friend ive been told, im swamped in my life, im sorry, i wanna be friend
me: i miss u
gina: ha theres nothing to miss.
me: youre my bridesmaid of course i miss you, when can we be friends?
gina: idonteven. i start classes soon, so i dont know.
me:
gina: plus ima a granny with back pain and shit, actually im going back to bed
me: oh! go to bed sweetheart
gina: i love you
me: me too
me: hey! btw i just went to the first try out of the dress!!
me: (send pics)
gina:
me: did you saw?
gina: mhm
gina: (logs out)
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Please tell me what you think, and what should i do! I dont want to get to the wedding day to say here's your dress, these are your flowers, walk down the aisle and stand next to the others. I've been considering of asking her if she still wants to be bridesmaid. I had an issue on january with my half sister when she didn't answered if she wanted to be BM, and she avoided me, and ran from me, and in the end 3 months ago she was, like, "im not even going to be in town those days, so no, i wont be your BM"
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