So the thread about people assuming everyone and Sally is invited got me thinking...
I've had four RSVPs already come in from friends indicating they are coming and bringing a plus one, only to find out they don't have an actual date yet. Or in one instance my fiance's cousin said her boyfriend MAY come but she isn't sure she he can get the time off. And everyone has said well "I will probably know a few days before the wedding." Or "I will let you know that week. "
No, no you will not. You will let me know by X date because I need to give a headcount and I'm not forking over $60 a plate for someone who may or may not show up. Has anyone else experienced this? Am I being a unreasonable by saying I'm sorry but if you can't tell me by X date then they can not attend. I have to give my headcount two weeks in advance so I asked to know by the night before.
This may be more of a rant. So rant over. Wedding is 4 weeks away and all those little things that I swore would never happen to me are starting to happen.