So, I'm really trying not to by judge-y here....but I just looked at "luxury weddings" because I was bored. I came across a discussion about budgets. Now, don't get me wrong, if YOU and your FIANCE have tons of money and choose to spend it on a lavish wedding ( I personally would rather save it) then by all means, go for it, but if your parents or in laws are paying for it, how do you not even give a second thought about things? I came across one bride saying that they're basically doing what they want and inviting unGodly amounts of people for a $95,000 budget that they will likely go over, but it's ok because her parents are paying for it. NINETY FIVE THOUSAND DOLLARS. Are you effing kidding me?! What if your parents care that you go over?! This whole thing sounds incredibly selfish to me. My parents are chipping in x amount of dollars (meaning under 8k) toward our venue and we are SUPER grateful. It will not cover all of the 180 guests we invited so WE are paying the difference...not asking my parents for more money. I just don't understand how people can throw other people's money around. I mean, maybe her parent sare okay with going over..I don't know because she didn't say. It was just the way it sounded to me.... like "oh, no big deal it's not our money". Ugh.