which name in vows??

The Right Place

My FI's first name is Alexander, he sometimes goes by Alex but most people know him as Sasha. I am not sure what's better but leaning towards his full name. Any ideas?

elkay

Perhaps it depends on the formality of your wedding, and what you are comfortable with. I considered my vows to be a verbal contract, witnessed by our friends and family. So we used our proper first names, not our nicknames. What I cannot remember is whether we used our full first, middle, and last names! Those are on the license and in the registry book though.

smorgasboard

We had to make tis decision as well. Went with proper names.