So.... My fiancé mom is wanting to invite people we have no idea who they are like co workers and friends we have never met. Has anyone ever heard of the parents having a list? I never heard of this. We are pretty much paying for this on our own we have no idea if anyone is going to be helping so we are trying to keep it smaller. We are already having a problem trying to figure out if we want kids at the wedding or not. Please give advice.