Hello!
So I am recently engaged but my fiancé and I have been together for almost 7 years so the topic of marriage has come up often. Now that it's official however, everyone is seeming to weigh in with their opinions as to what we should do. My ideal is to have a small group, 50 or less, have a destination wedding in Santa Barbara (we live in the OC) and then have a reception/party after that with the rest of the guests, ideally spending less than $5000 on the entire thing. This is where we run in to the problem: my fiancé's mother who we are extremely close to, would like us to have a traditional wedding and reception with everyone invited, meaning about 200 people! Also, my grandmother wants to invite her relatives that I am not at all close with. How do I keep my budget and ideal wedding while not upsetting our families too much?
Thanks everyone,
Lauren