I know who my bridesmaids are going to be, but I am waiting to officially ask them until one of them gets back to the States from serving in the Peace Corps in Rwanda in November.
My problem lies in my MOH. I know that my best friend of 10 years is going to be my MOH, hands down. She knows it, I know it, my fiance knows it, and my friends know it. My mother, grandmother and sister, on the other hand, seem to think that my sister is going to be MOH. This has just come to my attention and I don't know how to break the news to my sister..
I know, family comes before everything and I've heard, "it's your day, do what you want".. I have heard it all. But I am still stuck with this problem.
A little background: I hate my sister. Hate is a strong word.. I strongly dislike her. She is a competitive bitch and I can't stand her. Personally, she should be happy she is even in my wedding party. She is 14 months younger than me and thinks that because she has a 3 year old daughter, that she deserves to come out first in everything. She deleted me on Facebook when my fiance and I got a house before her and her boyfriend. She ignored me as my family congratulated me when I got engaged. She acted like a 13 year old teenager, grounded and forced, when my mother asked her to come look at dresses with us. She may not have acknowledged my engagement, but she did go out and bought clearance Bachelorette props at the local Michael's Craft Store, which my family thought was precious.
I don't want her to be my MOH, but even just mentioning the idea of my best friend coming up with Bachelorette plans starts fights between my family and I. Now what?