Two questions questions for the experts here:
My mom has reported to me that several of her friends have commented that "we need more expensive things" on our registry. While we certainly appreciate the generosity, our registry is not particularly extensive, but we chose some nice things that we intend to actually use, and I'm not sure how to respond. (Not that it really matters, but we do have multiple items over $100 on there that have not been purchased like pots and pans and bedding, so I'm not even sure what they mean!)
I've also had a few people ask if we would prefer them to pick some things off the registry or just give a gift card to the store. Honestly, it makes no difference either way to me, but what is a nice way to answer that question?
My fiance and I are in our 30s and have lived together for a while, so we are very grateful to our friends and family for any contribution they make, but we definitely don't have major needs for gifts. When I receive these questions, I want to make sure that I show our gratitude without making it sounds like we don't care at all. Does that make sense? Thanks for your thoughts!