This has come up a couple of times already and I'm really not sure how to respond. A couple of friends have asked me how much cash they should give us for a wedding gift. Both time I have responded that a gift isn't necessary and that we are just happy they will be celebrating with us. The guests have then replied "well obviously I'm going to give you a gift, but I don't know what the correct amount is." At this point, I've just been like give what you want/can afford. Has anyone had this happen to them? How would you respond?