Having never been married before I'm not sure if this is the done thing...but I am slightly (maybe a little more than slightly) annoyed.
A friend of mine who lives abroad, asked me if she will be one of my bridesmaids. We have been friends for nearly 8 years, but I felt very put on the spot and it made me feel extremely awkward because unfortunately at this point in time the answer is no. I really just want my sister, that's it, no friends. It was via skype and I probably just should have flat out said no but it was super awkward so my response was that I have not finalised the exact plans yet because there is still a big possibility we will just get married in Thailand instead, and on top of that I don't even know if she will be in the country for our wedding. Her response was that she will never miss our wedding day.
Does it sound like I have accidentally agreed to a bridesmaid? Not once did I say yes. I tried to just brush past the subject...
But really, who asks to be a bridesmaid?