I know that asking for opinions can be deangerous on here, but really, I want to know what you would choose.
I was checking out the invites board and a debate erupted over inviting people to the reception that were not invited to the ceremony. As in, I can only seat 100 people at the ceremony, but we have 175 guests on our list. Many knotties are against this because of etiquette, which I don't completely disagree with, however, this question came to mind:
If a friend or cousin were faced with the decision to either invite me to the reception only or not invite me to the wedding at all, what would I tell her?
A) I would rather be invited to the reception than not at all.
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Please take me off the list.
Personally, I would rather get the invite to the reception than not get invited at all.