I've been lurking for awhile & this has been bugging me...years ago (back in the dark ages of the late 70's) when my sis was planning her wedding I seem to remember all of her bridal magazines had charts listing the "duties" of the wedding party - things that were supposed to be the responsibility of the best man, MOH, etc.
Today I'm reading that the wedding party doesn't have to do anything except buy the outfit & show up.
Did this change over the last 20-30 years or am I crazy and just imagining those charts & lists?
It doesn't matter to me personally, because it never came up in my first wedding or this one, but I was just wondering...