I need some advise
We are only inviting our 20 neices & nephews to our wedding because our family as a whole has A LOT of kids 45 total, but one of the children is autistic and I am extreamly nervous about having them come for a number of reasons. PLEASE DO NOT POST HATEFUL things I am not in any way bashing autistic children I just have some general concerens. We are getting married in a friend of the families back yard....and they have a beautiful inground pool. We are going to be having the ceremony part around the pool. I am very worried because this child LOVES to swim with no clothes on and is very hard to control, so I am worried that he will be out there while we are saying our vows. My other concerns are that he does not like loud music and has this way of putting hands on all of the food especially cupcakes which is what I am having. The mom often gets mad because she gets tired of chasing the child...what do I do. Its so rude to say "hey can you please not bring this child, I do not think this event is ok for him" .......HELP what do I do??