Hey everyone,
I am completely new to this, so please bare with me
We have been engaged for quite some time now and it is finally coming down to "are we going to elope or have an actual wedding?" I, myself have always dreamed of a HUGE wedding... My fiance is an only child and is fine with eloping...
Our problem is... his family is very traditional and feel the brides family (father to be exact) should pay for the wedding... I do not have the best relationship with my dad and whenever the subject of paying for the wedding is brought up he backs out and doesn't give me an answer...
My fiance feels that we should not have to pay (old tradition) and he would rather spend the money on a fence or a shed or something for the house we just built instead of spending the money on a one day thing.
HELP! Does anyone have any advice on how I can resolve this situation!?!
We are getting married on 11.11.11 one way or another...
Thanks for your help in advance!