Hello ladies, I know for my May 2010 brides it is two months away from the wedding. Ok ladies, I need some suggestions, I still need to get a cake three tier buttercream cake very simple. Now my budget for that is 200? Well ho new is this cupcake thing someone gave me that idea, ut too sure about? I still need to find flowers for the bridemaids n others, I a doing silk for everything else and having my bouquet real flowers. Where can I go to find flowers? I have a idea for my bridal shower a cocktail party but is there anyother ideas? Im a party girl so that was my choice. Now as far as the bachelorette party where can I find a pole dancing lessons fr the party and where to "Bar Crawl"? I know this it alot but any ideas or suggestions would help?