I do not know much about my shower, my BM's are hosting it as a surprise. I do know the invites went out though because I noticed some people bought a few things from my reg., I spoke to my mother the other day who just wanted to warn me that a lot of my family will not be making it to the shower. That it would most likely only be my mom and gram. I do not have a large family myself we only invited about 15 on my side to the shower. AND a lot of them do not live super close but within a 1-2hr drive. Thankfully my soon to be's family is very large so at least some people will be there. I dont know why I am sorta sad, I guess I am sorta invisioning the type of showers I have attended with a lot of people having a great time. I know I should be happy I am getting one at all, I just wish more of my fam would come.