My mom and I got into a 'debate' this evening about who is invited to the wedding shower... SO I'm calling on you all to settle it for us :-)
I recently was invited to a shower for a friend whos wedding is this coming summer. I was rather suprised I was invited for whatever reason BUT regardless, my mom said that if you invite someone to the entire wedding festivities (ceremony/dinner/reception) you need to invite them to the bridal showers as well.
This SHOCKED me! I have WAY to many people on the whole wedding list and was NOT planning on inviting them all to a bridal shower! It just seems like crazy talk!
But - is she right? if you invite someone to the whole wedding does that mean they MUST get a shower invite as well?!?!