Hey girls, my fiance and I are planning to get married in 2014 (I know, a long way away and we're still planning lol). He is in the navy and everyone keeps asking him if he's going to wear his uniform and he keeps saying "no." I dont think he wants to because we will both be in white (its a summer wedding, so he'll be in dress whites and not dress blues) and he also said that it'd be a reminder to him of what took him away from me and our son for so long. A couple people are really pushing him to wear his uniform though, but he's pretty adiment about not doing it. Should I leave it be or should I encourage him that even though his training and everything did keep us apart for a while, it also made us lots stronger and has been very good for us?