My little sister is my MOH and threw me an amazing shower this past weekend. My FMIL drove in from OOT and gave me an entire setting of dishes that I registered from W-S and lingerie. The dishes was incredibly sweet & thoughtful. The lingerie, incredibly awkward and embarassing. Shower attendees included my grandmothers, my rather conservative family, my bridesmaids, some of my mom's friends, and some of my friends. I turned bright red and didn't know what to do when I opened it. Everyone else gave me normal kitchen/housey stuff. I guess my FMIL has been to different types of bridal showers than the one's I've been to. Every bridal shower I've attended, the bride received spice racks and cutting boards...I thought lingerie was for bachelorette parties.
I was initally really upset that she gave me that--in my mind the only motivation was malicious-- to embarass me, but i'm sure that's not the case. FMIL and I have always had a great relationship. Anyways, what's done is done, and she gave me the gift receipt, which was considerate. The lingerie isn't something I would ever pick out and isn't my size either, so I will be returning it.
However, here is my question: what in the world do I write in the thank you note? "Thank you for the scandilous undergarments..I'm sure your son will love them" or "Thank you for the undies, they will be helpful in getting you grandkids." No seriously though, I know I should address it in my TY letter, but I'm not sure how. Would love some suggestions