My fianc and I are going to a chapel to get married and are not having an actual reception. My future mother inlaw just told me that we are going to have a lame wedding because we are not having a garter or bouquet toss. She threw a fit and said that if we don't do that it's like not even having a wedding. She keeps saying how we should have just went to the court house if we weren't having a reception. She is so disappointed with us just because we are not doing this. My fianc asked her to apologize to me and him for saying our wedding is going to be horrible which our wedding is in a week.First she told me our wedding colors don't go good together, my music choices for the ceremony doesn't work, and now we have to have a garter toss and bouquet toss even though we are just going to dinner afterwards. What do you all think do you have to do a tradition you don't want to do?