today my fiance and i had another meeting with the Deacon who is helping us with our ceremony. Long story short our church requires us to take a FOCUS test and we got the results back today and he said that we were one of the best scoring couples he has ever seen! i know that it doesn't mean alot, but i was kinda proud of us! and then when we were talking about the details of the ceremony he said he was really impressed by how much thought we both put into it and he loved the fact that we were making decisions together. it was a really nice thing to hear! we are kinda patting ourselves on the back now :-)