I'm Catholic but my FI is not. He's christian. We're not too big on going to church, we've gone together maybe a handful of times- and two of those times were non family related. (regular mass vs weddings) My family is more conservative, his is more modern. My mother is coming on strong whenever we talk about the wedding. We haven't been successful in planning our wedding, I think we won't be until the "religion" topic is figured out- so I'm hitting a big road block.
Bottom line- I would love to be able to please both of them. I love my mother and I also love my FI . The difficult part is that were long distance, only 2 and half hours,but most times we're not in the same place trying to plan this wedding. I wouldn't mind being married in a church. My cousin is a priest and could marry us. I have pictured my self walking down an aisle, whether it be in a church or somewhere else. I'm worried about his family. Will they be uncomfortable sitting through a full Catholic mass? According to my mother, anything less than a hour ceremony won't "count", and the Church won't recognize our marriage. I have my mother's thoughts stuck in my head when I'm on the phone with my fi. Help. What would you do? any help would be great.