I've been lurking the etiquette board again... I know, I know, I need to stop.
A girl just posted there about her FMIL wanting to host an AHR for them and it having a larger guest list than the DW. Of course, everyone there is telling her that people can't be invited to the AHR if they aren't invited to the DW.
ETA: Which, I understand is "proper etiquette" but etiquette aside...
Did anyone here actually invite everyone to both?
I sure as hell didn't. 6 people (other than us) at our wedding, 62 at the AHR.