Hi all,
Is anyone else freaking out about seeing the bottom line on their wedding balance sheets? I know weddings are a lot of money, and I'm willing to spend in order to have a wonderful experience with my FH. This isn't really about the money: We can definitely afford a bigger wedding than we're having. It's just that I'm worried that my regret over the expense will outweigh my enjoyment of the day.
Eloping is not really an option - my very traditional parents would be crushed, and I don't want to disappoint them.
Is anyone else having the problem? If so, how are you dealing with it? How do I decide?