I'm not mad/sad I'm just sort of bummed, basically my FIs family is going on a "family trip" this summer and told my FI they didn't want me to come and they just wanted it to be a family thing. I feel like since we are engaged we are considered family. maybe if it wasn't a trip far away for a week or so I wouldn't care. Do I have a right to feel bummed? or am I being silly?