Ok. My Best friend/MOH/FSIL just told me at a family thanksgiving party that her and her hubby (FI brother) are thinking about trying ot get pregnant late winter. Well, they didn't really tell me so much as I overheard it and they decided to fill me in. Tey just had a baby in august and had swore up and down that they wouldn't start trying again until after the wedding. She is my MOH and FBIL is the BM. If they conceive when they are hoping, that would make her due about a month after the wedding. Of course I am a little sad that she might not enjoy all of the wedding related activities being that pregnant, and worried about the dress and what not, but my real concern is for them. About two weeks ago she email me about how she was ready to leave him and she was looking at apatments on craigs list. They have been having problems since she was about 6 months pregnant and this isn't the first time she had threatened to leave. I told her they should try counseling and they have been going for 2 or 3 weeks now. I know I can't tell them when they are ready or not, but I just think that bringing another child into the world right now while they are still working out their problems is not a good idea. I feel like they need ot concentrate on their relationship and another baby will just add more stress. Anyways, I want to talk to her about it, but I am afraid that she will think my concerns stem purely from my being worried about my wedding. She is one of my best friends, and I just want what's good for her and I don't think this is it right now. They want to start sooner rather then later so that my niece will be close in age with her sibling and they are hoping for the same kind of relationship FI and his brother have (they are 11 months apart). WWYD? TIA!