I'm 6 months out from the wedding day, and I've made the decision to remove my father from anything wedding-related, be it giving me away or the traditional father-daughter dance (long story, short version: he promised me $$ to cover everything but the reception, which is my fiance and I's cost. He's been ducking my calls and giving me excuses for 4 months and yesterday, he says, "are your deposits refundable...what if you don't get married...you should plan for the worse and expect the best"). One of my grandfathers is temporarily wheel-chair bound, and the other was just diagnosed with stomach cancer. God willing, both will be able to attend the wedding, in which case, I would feel comfortable asking one or both of them to walk me down the aisle. If they aren't, would it be ridiculous to walk down the aisle alone?? Or maybe with my mom?