We got engaged in November and had decided that an engagement party wasn't necessary - especially since we're paying for the bulk of the wedding on our own, that money could go elsewhere. Plus, I'm not very close with most of my family, and while yes they're invited and will show up to the wedding, they would most likely not show up for an engagement party. Well, now my finance's uncle has brought up the idea of a casual engagement party that he would be happy to help pay for and fiance is alllll for it. Problem still stands, I know that no more than 4 people from my family will show while all 50+ of his will. Do we go through with it? How do I explain to his family that my family just isn't close enough to make it out and it's not really their thing? I envision it to be a totally awkward "party"... help?