I just sent out the invitations for our wedding and had the guestlist for my mother to look over months ago. She called me tonight to find out why her friend who she doesn't even hang out with much anymore isn't being invited to our wedding. I really am not close to her friend and I understand that she would like them to be there. I also was barely able to invite my friends because both of our families are so big that they filled most of our guestlist. I had to make decisions on who to cut and because I am not close to her friends, I chose to not invite them so that I could have some of my closest friends there. She told me that I needed to call the reception place and see if we can get a bigger room so we can invite more people. My parents are paying for the wedding, but I was trying to keep costs down for them. It just really frustrates me that despite having time to look over my guestlist before the invites were made she waited until after they were all made out and mailed to voice her opinion about it.